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You’re not broken
Your wiring is just old
Hey friend,
I spent years trying to think my way out of pain.
Therapy. Self-help books. Meditation. Insight after insight.
But no matter how much I understood myself, I kept reacting the same way.
I’d find myself pulling away from the people I loved. Getting triggered by the same things. Snapping when I wanted to stay calm. Then feeling ashamed, confused, and exhausted.
And I hear the same thing over and over from clients:
"I know why I act the way I do. But I can’t seem to stop."
If that’s you, listen… you’re not broken.
What’s actually happening is that your nervous system is stuck in old protective patterns.
These patterns live in the body. Not the mind.
They were wired into you during painful or chaotic experiences, and they’ve been running the show ever since, completely outside of your awareness.
That’s why you can know your triggers and still get flooded. That’s why you can love someone and still push them away. That’s why you can want to be present and still feel numb.
This isn’t about willpower. And it’s not about insight.
It’s about retraining your nervous system.
That’s what Inner Work Mastery is designed to do.
This isn’t another mindset course or motivational pep talk. It’s a body-first, science-backed system for:
Identifying exact patterns running your emotions & relationships
Regulating your nervous system so it stops seeing life as a threat
Rewiring the emotional responses that keep you stuck in shame and self-sabotage
For this launch week only, you can join for just $79 (that’s 20% off). After that, the price goes up to $99.
You can get all the details on this page (discount already applied).
If talk therapy didn’t work the way you hoped... If you feel like you’re missing something... If you’re tired of repeating the same emotional patterns...
This is the piece you haven’t been shown yet.
And it changes everything.
With warmth,
Dr. Bob
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